Did Rihanna fall during her Grammy’s Performance?

Looks to me like Rihanna took a spill during her Grammy’s performance tonight with Kanye West and Paul McCartney, but maybe she was just dancing low?  The camera quickly panned to a close up of Paul McCartney and a few times he looked over out of the side of his eyes to look at Rihanna.  Overall, it was a great performance, but Paul McCartney’s mic wasn’t on either so couldn’t even hear him singing.

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Madonna’s performance on The Grammy Awards 2015

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Madonna performed “Living for Love” on tonight’s Grammy Awards.  I truly loved Madonna back in the day, but the woman is now 56 years old… I just feel it’s time to put the corset one-pieces away and stop grinding on stage.  I’d love to say “girl’s still got it!” but I just don’t feel that way.  She looks weathered and certainly doesn’t move around like she did 20 years ago.  I will give her credit for even attempting though.  I’m just left feeling more sad than excited to see her.  I also find the song “Living for Love” lacking any substance.  It’s mildly catchy but lacks any kind of edge.  What did you think?

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Destin Pfaff and Rachel Federoff returning to TV in new show!

Millionaire Matchmaker adored couple Destin Pfaff and Rachel Federoff are returning to TV in their win show according to lalate and Rachel’s Facebook page.. Details have not been released yet and waiting for clarification if it will be on Bravo or another network. Fans have been wondering what happened to Destin and Rachel since their disappearance from the show in 2013. Check this previous post for details: Destin and Rachel no longer on Millionaire Matchmaker.

More information about Kelsey Poe from The Bachelor

Kelsey’s audition tape here is frightening how many times she refers to her “story”. She also talks about going on The Bachelor as a way to pay homage to Sanderson. Whaaaat? I just do not get this girl!

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Kelsey 4The unnerving side of Kelsey Poe was on full display during the last couple of Bachelor episodes. Here’s more about her “amazing” story:

IMDB Trivia (authored by Kelsey):
Did not apply to be a participant on The Bachelor, was nominated by a friend.
Moved to Sarasota, Florida two weeks after graduating high school. Alone. With only $1,000 to her name.

Since episode 5, Kelsey has since deleted her Twitter account.

Her deceased husband Sanderson was born January 27th, 1971. He died on May 3rd, 2013. He’s buried in the Resurrection Memorial Cemetary in Oklahoma City, OK.

Kelsey has a younger sister named Taylor… who has stuck up for her sister by writing this.

She has a nephew named Ezra.

Has a website that is under construction but will be back online in March, after The Bachelor airs the finale.

Sanderson kinda looks like Pat Monahan from the band Train.

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The Challenge: Battle of the Exes Episode 5 RECAP

It’s like Groundhog Day… the episode starts off as nearly every other… the cast partying at the bar after the Dome Challenge.  People are drinking too much, flirting too much.  Johnny Bananas is trying to rally his troops against Wes.  Zach says at the end of the day they’re all playing for themselves and he’s not necessarily going to do whatever Johnny Bananas tells him to do.

Next morning, everyone’s working out and Zach dares Nia to drink a cup of his sweat.  Continue reading

The Challenge: Battle of the Exes 2 Episode 4 RECAP

This is from The Challenge episode that aired last week on 1/27/15:

Brittany and AdamAt the end of the previous episode, we saw Brittany and Adam win the head to head challenge in the Dome against Simone and John (J.J.).  The episode left off with Brittany and Adam celebrating and getting really close.  They start making out and the other cast members say this is a recipe for disaster.  So this episode starts off where that one left off and they’re on the dance floor dancing.  Adam says it’s just a “team building” exercise.  Continue reading

The Bachelor’s Kelsey’s late husband’s obit is very creepy

KelseyKelsey on this season’s episode of The Bachelor has a story that’s “amazing” or so she claims.  The manner in which Kelsey speaks of her late husband Sanderson Poe is so very strange and cold.  The fact that she even uses his full name “Sanderson Poe” is a bit creepy.  But nothing is as eerie as his obituary which clearly had to have been written by her… because it’s nearly all about her and his love for her.  Here is his full obituary as originally printed in the Tulsa World on 5/23/13:

Sanderson Patrick Poe, age 42, had great passion for the loves of his life. His wife, Kelsey Lyn Poe and his music. Together Sanderson and Kelsey set their course as one and as one they were.

Kelsey’s goal and Sanderson’s supportive commitment were achieved May 18, 2013 with Kelsey’s graduation with her Master’s Degree from the University of Texas in Austin. Sanderson was a student in Tulsa and Norman, Oklahoma before moving to London, England, where he graduated from the American Community School.

Sanderson completed studies in Jazz Music at the New School for Social Research in New York City and the Royal Conservatory in Brussels, Belgium. Sanderson played the Upright Double Bass and had a very successful music career in Europe before returning to the United States where he met and married Kelsey in 2009.

Sanderson lived his life as a loving partner to Kelsey and to be true to his own free spirit. Sanderson’s music is still being performed in Europe today. A few of Sanderson’s unusual accomplishments include working on a fishing boat in Iceland, exercising horses in Hyde Park London, and being an outstanding Rugby Player in England.

Sanderson was preceded in death by his step-mother, Sharon Lee Poe and his birth mother, Stephanie Parris Thompson. He is survived by: his wife, Kelsey; his grandmother, Pearl Sullens; his father, Patrick Poe; brothers, William Poe, Preston Poe, and Mark Baldwin; sister, Debbie Meador; uncles, Robert Poe and George Purdum.

Service will be at 10 a.m., Friday, May 24 at the Resurrection Memorial Cemetery Chapel , 7500 Britton Road, Oklahoma City.

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So the worst part of it is the noting of HER accomplishment less than a week before he passed away.  “Kelsey’s goal and Sanderson’s supportive commitment were achieved May 18, 2013 with Kelsey’s graduation with her Master’s Degree from the University of Texas in Austin. ”   Just such an odd statement to have put in HIS obituary.  She’s a narcissist to the extreme level.   Thoughts?

 

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The Bachelor: Chris Soules – Episode 5 RECAP

Tonight’s episode starts out with Chris Soules in Sante Fe, New Mexico.  Chris Harrison greets the ladies back in Los Angeles and tells them there will be one group date and two one-on-one dates and tells them they will be going to Sante Fe.  A change of scenery is always fun.  Megan, bless her heart, keeps talking about how New Mexico is a resort town, lots of beaches, maybe they’ll wear sombreros, and she’s excited because she’s never been out of the country.  *face palm*  Seriously, girl.  ugh.

The ladies check in to a beautiful casino resort.  First date card arrives: “Carly – Let’s Come Together”!  I’m excited for this.  I didn’t like Carly all that much the first night when she came in singing country music, but she’s really grown on me.  Her quit wit makes her adorable.

IMG_2076Carly meets up with Chris at this really cool house that’s a southwestern feel to it.  They go to the backyard where there’s a woman meditating by a pool.  Apparently she’s a love guru… and there’s a storm brewing up above.  Looks like it’s going to downpour on them at any minute. They move inside the house and the Love Guru burns  some sage around them.  Chris says he’s cautiously optimistic about this experience but a little nervous as to how weird it’s going to get.  She then instructs Carly to blindfold Chris and to not make a sound, just use breath and touch and to feed him different kinds of fruit and chocolate.  Then he does the same with her and gets into some really awkward positions.  Chris says in his interview that he’s quickly realizing she’s not a Love Guru, she’s a Sex Guru.  The Love Guru then tells them they’re going to de-robe each other and shed the layers they have on to just be more open with each other.  Carly looks terrified at this notion and tells Chris she hasn’t been “physically shedding” her clothes for a man in a very long time, and tells Chris to take that into consideration.  Chris then goes from looking kind of excited about it to really awkward and serious.  Carly first takes off his robe leaving him only in shorts.  He then takes off her robe leaving her in a top similar to a sports bra and a skirt.  The Guru then asks what piece of clothing does she want to take off next.  They both look so uncomfortable.  Neither one of them wants to be doing this… it’s just awkward for a first date and weird.  She kind of goes to undo his shorts and she whispers to him “I’m kind of uncomfortable.” And he says “so am I.  Let’s not do this.”  I’m so mad that the producer put them (especially her) in this position!!  Why is it always up to the girl to have to say “no”?!  He should have stopped it before and said “this is inappropriate for a first date.”  So the Guru tells them instead of removing clothing, to just let go of a figurative mask they’ve been hanging on to.  Chris says to actually allow him self to fall in love and commit (red flag, ladies!).  And she says letting go of the feeling that she is not worthy of love.  Awwww.  I love you, Carly!!  (okay, not the same, I get it)  Chris tells her she is worthy.   The Guru then had her sit in his lap facing him and without kissing, getting really close.  It gets hot, but I have to keep thinking there’s another woman in the room staring at you while you’re doing this!!  It’s all just too weird for me.

Back at the house with the rest of the ladies, Kelsey starts out “I had a husband who supported me in EVERYTHING. We took care of each others’ needs…”  and goes on to explain how her husband passed away.  Ashley I thinks it’s odd she hasn’t brought it up until now and that she seems so cold about it.  Date card arrives: Jade, Megan, Kaitlyn, Whitney, Mackenzie, Becca, Samantha, Ashley, and Kelsey.  So that means Britt go the other one-on-one date.  Kelsey says that doesn’t make her feel special, and that’s not acceptable.

IMG_2078Now back again with Carly and Chris, it’s night time and they have wine by a fire and talk about the experience of the day.  Then Carly explains how her last relationship, the guy didn’t want anything to do with her physically.  She says it made her feel undesirable.  She goes on to describe her insecurities and that Chris really made her feel more secure.  Chris said his insecurities comes from thinking that his home, his occupation, isn’t enough for what some of these girls want.  It was interesting to hear him say that.  Sometimes he comes across as such a player, but maybe it’s to mask his insecurities that he actually has.

 

IMG_2082Group Date! Looks like they will be going white water rafting on the Rio Grande River.  Megan is worried about alligators and dead bodies.  Then they get the safety talk from some ranger type guy and he basically scares the crap out of them on what could happen.They get going down the rapids and Jade fell out of the boat.  She has a condition that gives her hypothermia in normal degree weather.  So they have to park the rafts and get out and get Jade back to feeling better.  The other girls get jealous at the attention that Jade is getting while Chris rubs her feet and hands to try to warm her up and get the circulation going again.  Kelsey says “I’m not going to get any attention because I’M FINE!”  Which I believe is foreshadowing of what’s coming up in a bit.

Cocktail time later on the date and the girls are all dressed up.  Chris is walking down to greet them and up walks Jordan who was eliminated in week 2.  She looks very different now that she’s sober.  Chris says that he let her go because they never had a real conversation.  She just consumed too much wine.  But the Jordan that’s there today seems way more serious and taking things more seriously.  She asks him for a second chance.  Meanwhile the other ladies are wondering where Chris is.  So when Chris comes to meet up with them and has Jordan on his arm, the girls are SHOCKED.  Then each of the girls sit down with Chris and talk about Jordan.  Whitney starts doubting Ashley as a mate for Chris because she is being over the top mean about the Jordan situation.  Ashley doesn’t feel anyone should be nice to Jordan if they’re truly serious about Chris.  Whitney’s take on it is that she just doesn’t think it’s ever okay to just be mean to someone (I agree!!).  So this will be interesting to see how the night pans out.

BrittAhhh… so we’re finally getting to the “Britt doesn’t shower” part of the show that Michelle Money mentioned at the live premiere!  Britt is talking with Carly back at the house and says she’s excited for her date and she might even shower.  Carly says that Britt hasn’t showered in weeks and laughs and says “why doesn’t she shower?? I don’t know!”  How is her hair not more greasy?  Maybe from all the time in the pools?  The date card says “the sky’s the limit.”  And Britt freaks out because she’s so afraid of heights.  I can totally relate!!  I wouldn’t jump out of a plane or bungee jump just for a guy on a show like this.  I FREAK out at heights.  I really really understand where Britt is coming from.

Okay, back at the group date Chris and Jordan speak privately.  He tells her that he just can’t do this to the other girls and he needs to follow the process.  He tells her he has to let her go.  He looks very pained at this decision.  Jordan says her goodbyes to the girls and Kelsey very dramatically whispers in her ear “I’ll always admire you.”  Really?  Strange.  The tension is thick though even after she leaves.  Chris picks this time to hand out the date rose though.  And gives it to Whitney!  Yay!!  She’s such a kind person.  But all the other girls get so upset.  Ashley is of course crying again.  Ashley just cannot stand Whitney.

Chris goes to Britt’s room in the morning to wake her up and “surprise the hell out of her.”  So he sneaks down at 4:23 am looking for Britt.  She has full makeup on when he wakes her up.  Meanwhile Carly is not happy because he tells her to be quiet as he’s waking up Britt and she can hear them exchanging little kisses and such as she’s waking up.  It’s a rude way to wake up when she thought she just had this great date with him and she felt so special.

Chris takes away and Britt is freaking out about what the heights thing is going to be on this date.  They then pull up to a hot air balloon and Britt is suddenly very excited to do this.  I’m not sure I could handle that.   She said she feels very safe.  I’m not so sure I would.  It’s so beautiful, but way too high up for me without a safety net.

Britt and Chris go back to his room in the afternoon.  Meanwhile, the ladies discuss Britt back in their room.  They discuss the fact that she doesn’t shower or shave her legs.  Ashley and Megan tell the other girls that Britt said she just doesn’t really want to get married or have kids right away.  Basically she has a hard time committing. So Chris and Britt start discussing how many kids they want and he says like 10.  And she says “really??  I want like 100!”  The girls feel like she’s just feeding him anything that he wants to hear.  Carly is especially upset and feels like a fool because of the way he treated her when he came to get Britt.  Chris and Britt go into the bedroom and Chris shuts the door.  It definitely looks like they’re going to have sex.  Whether or not they really do have sex…. well, we’ll probably find out later.

KelseyBritt gets back to the girls’ room and she tells them all about her date.  And she tells them that they took “nap” and just spent like two hours in his room.  The girls are not buying it.  Kelsey sneaks away from the room and marches down to Chris’s room.  Kelsey tells Chris her sob story about her late husband.  It seems very rehearsed and fake and just…. odd.  She says in her interview “oh isn’t my story amazing?  It’s tragic.  But it’s AMAZING.  I love my story.”  Wow…. psycho…. this is strange…. it’s all just one big plot. [Click here to read Sanderson Poe’s obituary – it’s creepy to say the least!

Cocktail party…. everyone’s on edge.  Kelsey keeps saying she’s confident and it’s really puzzling the other girls.  Chris tells the ladies that Kelsey and him had a tough conversation that really hit home with him.  Chris gets really emotional halfway through his sentence and walks away.  Carly thinks that Kelsey would have gone home tonight but she told her story and now Carly feels like someone else will go home instead.  Kelsey launches into this odd speech about “time” and how precious it is.  Wow… it’s so strange and fake.

Chris Harrison comes out and tells the ladies that there will not be a cocktail party.  His mind is already made up.  He knows exactly what he wants to do.  The girls are really panicking.  Kelsey just gets up and left the room.  Then you just hear her wailing in the other room.  Cameras finally find her and she’s hysterical on the floor.  She is asked if she hit her head.  She says no, she thinks she’s having a panic attack.  AND IT’S TO BE CONTINUED!!!  ugh!!  Seriously people!

The Challenge: Battle of the Exes 2: Episode 3 Recap

It’s been almost two weeks since the third episode of The Challenge: Battle of the Exes has aired, and I’m finally now bringing myself to watch it.  I have been putting it off because I had a feeling it would be the last time we would see Diem, based on how episode 2 left off.  The pain in my heart that I feel for this girl I only knew on screen is just incredible.  The love that CT has shown her is nothing short of incredible either.

CT and DiemIn the beginning of the episode we see Diem hunched over and looking horrible.  The producers take her to the hospital and then she comes back in the wee hours of the morning.  She’s clearly not better and this is something serious, so the next day they fly her from Panama to New York.  Her last interview they show of her is her talking about wanting a family and a husband and how she was so career focus and commitment phobic for so long, but that she doesn’t feel that way anymore.  She wants the white picket fence, she wants to be happy.  It’s unclear to me how soon she died after the filming of this episode, but I have to believe it wasn’t very long.  CT obviously had to leave the show since his partner was no longer able to compete, but I have to believe he wouldn’t have wanted to carry on anyway without her.  He wanted to be by her side to see how she was doing and take care of her.

the-zipline-contraptionNow it’s time for the actual challenge.  TJ explains to them their task: “on again off again”.  Two teams at a time hold on to this structure on a zipline as it spins them in a circle. Knight compares it to wanting to hang from a ceiling fan while it spins around.  The object is to hang on as long as possible till it gets to the red buoy.  Then they must drop, swim around the buoy and go back to the starting area.  Team with the fastest time wins power couple, slowest time goes into the duel. Simone drops first in a painful slap to the water below and very far from the red buoy so she has quite a ways to swim and she’s struggling swimming.  John does not help her, they just look pathetic.  In the next heat Brittany drops almost immediately.  Theresa is screaming “my hands! my hands! my hands!” Somehow she got her hands tied up in the rope and wrapped around her finger.  Jemmye falls early in the next heat and partner Knight says “That’s because gravity’s a bitch and with thighs like that you’re going to fall hard.”  And this is why I’m crying that Diem has passed, but can’t feel much for Knight’s passing.  He’s just so mean to Jemmye and everyone else.

Sarah and Jordan worked well together and at least beat Johnny and Averey in their heat.  TJ announces the slowest teams are LeRoy and Nia and Simone and John.  And the slowest of those two teams were…. Simone and John.  The fastest teams were only separated by 3 seconds: Wes and Theresa and Jordan and Sarah.  The winning team is… Jordan and Sarah!!   I’m excited because I love Sarah – not so much love for Jordan though.

Jordan and Sarah get to sit down with both Wes and Johnny Bananas and they make both of them feel like they’re on board with an alliance with them.  Sarah says she’d like to beat those boys at their own game.  It comes time for Sarah and Jordan to put up another couple and they choose rookies Brittany and Adam will be going against on John (JJ) and Simone.

Dome challenge…. TJ is standing at a fancy dinner table.  Will this be an eating challenge?  Oh plot twist! TJ says there will be a new couple coming in to replace CT and Diem!!  In walks…. no one!  Ack! He tricked us!  The name of this elimination challenge is called “He Said She Said” and is a betting game.  You’re going to bet on how much your partner can eat of a certain food in 3 minutes.  The other team will have a chance to bet more food and it will go back and forth until someone calls it.  First team to win 2 rounds wins.  First on the menu… Brownies.  Brittany says 4 brownies… Simone bets 3!!!  She clearly didn’t get the concept of this.  Then she goes up to 5 and Brittany goes up to 7 and Simone calls it.  Adam starts attacking the brownies and is already having a problem after just one minute of eating.  But he ends up clearing it no problem with more than a minute to go.  Now the guys are up.  Yucca sticks… John says 4, Adam 6, John says 8, Adam says 13 and John calls it.  They’re chewy and dry and hard to eat…. 5 seconds left… Brittany only got down 10.  It’s tied 1-1.  Girls betting again…. Patacones… Brittany bets 6, Simone 7, Brittany 8, Simone goes up to 11 and Brittany calls it.  John sits down to eat it and is just taking his time.  Doesn’t complete it… ate only 7 out of the 11.  Just couldn’t do it.  Brittany and Adam are back in the game, Simone and John going home.

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The Bachelor: Chris Soules Episode 4 RECAP

It’s early morning and Chris Harrison greets the women, as usual.  He explains that there will be 3 dates… two group dates, one one-on-one date.  The twist is that Chris’ three sisters will decide who gets the one on one date this week.  First date card: Megan, Kaitlyn, Ashley I, Ashley S, Juelia, Makenzie, and Kelsey “Let’s do what feels natural.”  The girls automatically assume this means no makeup.

The ladies and Chris head out on convertibles and hit their destination at a lake in the middle of nowhere.  They all strip down to bathing suits and go swimming.  I think Chris just uses any excuse to get these girls in their bikinis.  Ashley I first decides to take her top off, then Kaitlyn takes off her bottoms.  “This is a date made for bimbos” Kelsey says as she doesn’t think it’s appropriate for the girls to take their clothes off.

Back at the mansion, the remaining ladies are meeting with Chris’s sisters.  Jillian was asleep out by the pool when one of the girls went out and grabbed her.  Of course her butt was censored out again.  Jillian’s mortified that this is their first impression of her.

Whitney sits down with the three sisters first.  She did pretty well answering their questions and seemed sincere.  Then Britt sat down with them and tells them she’s confident in her relationship with him.  Jade then sat down with the sisters and I swear it’s the first time I’ve seen her speak on camera.  I don’t remember anything about her!  She seemed sweet and genuine though.

KelseyKelsey describes the date as being in a hell hole.  She says that if you want to see a great lake, go to Michigan!!  Yeah baby!!! That’s exactly what I thought when they pulled up to that dingy lake.  That’s nothing compared to Lake Michigan!!  But then she goes a little overboard and is getting a bit whiny and says she doesn’t want to be there and her face hurts from fake smiling.  Okay, I get it, but suck it up.  Then she got stuck by a bee right on her inner thigh! Chris announces that they’re going to be camping there.  Makenzie and Ashley I have no idea what they’re doing pitching a tent.

At the mansion, Carly sits down with the sisters and she explains how guys haven’t been very nice to her.  She says that she sees the way her grandpa treats her grandma and that’s what she wants.

Next date card: JADE!  “Your presence is requested at a royal ball tomorrow evening…” The card goes on to explain that Chris won’t know who his sisters picked until she shows up.  Jade is cutely honored by the fact that she was picked.  She’s very humble.

At the campsite, Kaitlyn sat with Chris first and discussed what makes them feel loved.  Kelsey’s fakeness is coming out.  She’s very pouty and grumpy around the girls, but then giggly and smiley around Chris.  It doesn’t seem sincere at all.  C’mon, why do the Michigan girls always disappoint me?!  Then Ashley S’s drunkness and craziness starts showing and the girls just get all silly.

Ashley S sits down with Chris and starts acting all freaky and strange.  The girl HAS to be on drugs.  Why has he kept her around week after week?  She’s slurring her speech and telling him she loves him “I hope that resonates in your mind tonight” she tells him.  He looks completely weirded out.

Ashley I sits down with him, and in her interview I notice she has braces or retainer or something. But then when she talks to Chris I don’t notice it.  Ashley I and Chris start making out pretty heavily.

IMG_2043At the campfire again, Chris has the date rose and decides to give it to Kaitlyn.  Then everyone goes to sleep.  Ashley I decides to sneak into Chris’s tent while he and everyone else is sleeping.  She wants to talk to him about how she’s a virgin.  She tells him that she’s “friggin innocent” and that she’s never had a boyfriend before.  Chris tells her that from the moment he met her he pegged her as smart, well rounded.  She tells him that guys have a hard time figuring her out because she’s a “friggin’ nerd” and “I’m also inexperienced in every way possible.”  He says he gets it and he wants to find out more later.  Chris says he’s foggy (hungover/drunk) and tired, and Chris admits in his interview that he had no idea what she was talking about.  They begin to kiss and it cuts to commercial…. leaving you wondering… is she about to lose her virginity?

Next morning… the ladies tell the girls that just got back from their dates about Chris’s sisters coming to visit.  Jillian explains that Jade got the date card.  Ashley I is very jealous that she didn’t even have the chance for the one on one date.  These stylists come in calling for Jade to get her transformed and ready for her date.  It’s totally like a fairytale with dresses everywhere to choose from, shoes, etc.  Ashley I is very immature about it all and cannot stand to watch Jade get dressed in all these different dresses.  Jade picks out her gorgeous ball gown and is told she gets to keep the glass slipper shoes and the diamond earrings.

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Back at the house… Ashley I gets dressed up in a ball gown, does her hair and makeup, like she’s going on this date but she’s not.  Very crazy.

And at the date, Chris gave Jade a date rose.  They seem really sweet together.  I haven’t noticed Jade before today, but she’s really nice and sweet.  They go to this ballroom next to where they had dinner and there’s a full orchestra there and the new Cinderella movie playing on a screen in the playground.  Obviously, Chris has been given lessons…. the farmer boy does not just normally know how to dance.  🙂  The clock struck midnight and Jade had to run off.  All very cute.

MuckfestNext day, date card: Nikki, Jillian, Whitney, Carly, Britt, and Becca “Let’s get dirty!”  And there’s 6 big boxes with wedding dresses in them!  Jillian is not loving the dress.  She said she doesn’t like wearing dresses.  They take a private jet to San Francisco.  They pull up to a MuckFest MS which is like Tough Mudder race that races money and awareness for M.S.  The person who clears the finish line first gets to spend the evening portion of the date with Chris.  Jillian is now feeling back in her element.  So off they go running in the beautiful wedding dresses.  Some of the girls are out early while Jillian is super ahead of everyone else.  Carly says that Jillian should be wearing a tux.  “Is she a f***ing dude?” Carly asks.  hahaha!  Jillian kisses her muscles…. ugh, she’s too brutish.  The other girls are disappointed that that was all to their date.  They were robbed!

Chris and Jillian start talking and it definitely looks like something is missing.  Jillian doesn’t have a 5 year plan on where she wants to be.  Jillian just keeps babbling on and on and Chris said he’s thinking about unicorns and dancing fairies.  I do believe Jillian will not be getting the date rose.  There seems to be no chemistry.  Pretty sure Jillian is a lesbian.  Chris picks up the rose…. tells her she’s beautiful, has great energy, and he’s looking for his wife and he just doesn’t feel like they have that chemistry and they’re not on the same page.  Jillian begins to cry and apologizes for not being more vulnerable.   I think Jillian would be happier with a woman and she just needs to realize that.  Chris did it with class though and I think they both handled it as best as they could.

Cocktail party time…. Becca takes Chris aside and immediately blindfolds him, then grabs some fruit and fondu and starts feeding it to him.  She is coming off very airhead-like and drunk though as she has trouble forming sentences and sounding even the least bit intelligent.

Ashley I decides to take Chris aside just to reiterate that she is a virgin in case he didn’t pick up on it when she tried telling him in his tent.  Dang girl!  Anyone else tired of this subject already?!  So in this very awkward moment she finally flat out says she’s a virgin.  Chris, very comically and uncomfortably, in his interview says “nope, did not see that coming.  I did not ever imagine Ashley I would be telling me she’s a virgin.” Chris looks so uncomfortable as Ashley I nervously babbles on about how she’s a virgin, but he does say he respects her more.  Ashley walks away and immediately starts freaking out because for the first time Chris didn’t kiss her.  Now she doesn’t think she’s okay and safe.

Ashley I tells all the girls that she’s a virgin.  This was news to Kaitlyn and Carly who cannot believe it because they’ve seen the way Ashley’s been kissing Chris.  Carly says “She may be a virgin, but her mouth isn’t a virgin.”  She has the best one liners!  Then Becca comes forward and says “I’m a virgin too.  I haven’t told him because it hasn’t come up.”  Kaitlyn freaks out about two virgins being in the house!  Virgingate!  This is awesome!

BrittBritt decides to sit down with Chris and have a serious conversation with him.  She confronts him about the camping date and how he gave the rose to Kaitlyn after she took her clothes off, and there was a lot of talk about sex, and how a lot of girls wanted to just go home after that.  You can see Chris’s face start to look stern or even a bit mad as Britt is talking.  She’s really questioning his integrity by saying that she felt he was rewarding the behavior (of taking her clothes off) by giving her a rose.  He gets pretty mad and ends their conversation abruptly and walks away.  He says “I am a man and I will handle this like a man.”  He addresses the women and says that he’s here to find a wife and that if any of them feel he is not here for the right intentions they are welcome to leave.  Then he says he will see them at the rose ceremony and he walked out of the room.

Rose ceremony… Roses go to: Whitney, Carly, Megan, Samantha, Mackenzie, Kelsey, Becca, Ashley I…. one rose left… Britt.  Ashley S, Juelia, and…. a dark haired girl I can’t remember the name of.  Chris walks Juelia out in a very emotional goodbye.  Juelia was very classy and says she appreciates him telling her and not keeping her around if he wasn’t feeling it.  Chris tells her she really deserves the best and she’s a beautiful person.  Very sweet, I feel bad for her.  ❤

Next week’s episode looks to be THE MOST DRAMATIC ONE EVER!  He possibly had sex with Carly, or maybe someone else?  Maybe no one?  Kelsey has some sort of medical emergency and is lying on the floor.  And Chris excuses himself during the rose ceremony… or that’s what it’s all made out to look like at least!